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Aaron Stampler/Roy ([personal profile] creeksidealtarboy) wrote2023-07-11 05:48 pm

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abrightboy: (makes a point)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
It doesn’t have to be, Aaron.
abrightboy: (well?)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn’t start with those. Maybe a book or a song you like and go from there.
abrightboy: (concession)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Look, you want to rebuild trust with this person, right? All I’m saying is it’s best to start small.
abrightboy: (consider this)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 06:26 pm (UTC)(link)
How what works? What’s the difference?
abrightboy: (confounded)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
What does your friend need?
abrightboy: (explains)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)
How are you going to alleviate that for him?
abrightboy: (empathy)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
But you don’t want to do that.
abrightboy: (confounded)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
An interesting choice of one.
abrightboy: (empathizes)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Things have changed between you and one of your friends. Is that what the fight was about?
abrightboy: (consider this)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you comfortable having a sexual relationship with him?
abrightboy: (empathy)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
[Well, this is not good. He sends Aaron a text.]

Hi Aaron. I understand why you don't want to talk about this, apart from it brushing close to your trauma, but please reconsider entering into sexual acts with someone if you're not comfortable with that. If you are, great, I'm happy for you. But I was not getting a comfortable with that vibe. I was getting a "I'll do what I have to to avoid losing the connection" vibe. If he cares about you, he won't want you to do those things just to please him if it's not what you want. If you need to talk, you know how to get in touch. Just please choose what's right for you. Setting boundaries for even a friend's behavior towards you is healthy and a real friend will respect them.
abrightboy: (confession)

Re: video

[personal profile] abrightboy 2024-01-07 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I’m relieved to hear it. Read it. Look after yourself, okay?