Hi Aaron. I understand why you don't want to talk about this, apart from it brushing close to your trauma, but please reconsider entering into sexual acts with someone if you're not comfortable with that. If you are, great, I'm happy for you. But I was not getting a comfortable with that vibe. I was getting a "I'll do what I have to to avoid losing the connection" vibe. If he cares about you, he won't want you to do those things just to please him if it's not what you want. If you need to talk, you know how to get in touch. Just please choose what's right for you. Setting boundaries for even a friend's behavior towards you is healthy and a real friend will respect them.
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Hi Aaron. I understand why you don't want to talk about this, apart from it brushing close to your trauma, but please reconsider entering into sexual acts with someone if you're not comfortable with that. If you are, great, I'm happy for you. But I was not getting a comfortable with that vibe. I was getting a "I'll do what I have to to avoid losing the connection" vibe. If he cares about you, he won't want you to do those things just to please him if it's not what you want. If you need to talk, you know how to get in touch. Just please choose what's right for you. Setting boundaries for even a friend's behavior towards you is healthy and a real friend will respect them.